After a quiet prayer was muttered by my pastor Grandpa, the aura in the room would change immediately. Loud chatter of Hungarian mixed with Yugoslavian and a few names like my own thrown into the mix, created a chaotic environment. When my friends come visit and eat lunch with all of us they always ask, "Oh my gosh what is everyone fighting about?" I then reply with something like "Oh, don't worry, Nana was just asking mom to pass the peppers". The food was delicious, but if you thought that it would be quiet while we ate you would be mistaken. If you collected a bunch of food on your plate but then somehow could not finish it--oh boy were you in trouble. Tradition is if you can't finish your food, the only way to be excused is to cry because you are already so full you could not possibly eat one more bite.
Those meals were unforgettable, and now they are only more special because they are only about twice a year because they moved. Every Sabbath was a blessing, was filled with joy and chatter, and not one was ever the same as the last.
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